Pedoman Lelaki & Wanita

Di akhirat nanti ada 4 golongan lelaki yg akan ditarik
masuk ke neraka oleh wanita. Lelaki itu adalah mereka
yg tidak memberikan hak kpd wanita dan tidak menjaga
amanah itu. Mereka ialah:

1. Ayahnya

Apabila seseorang yg bergelar ayah tidak mempedulikan anak2 perempuannya didunia. Dia tidak memberikan segala keperluan agama seperti mengajar solat,mengaji dan sebagainya Dia membiarkan anak2 perempuannya tidak menutup aurat. Tidak cukup kalau dgn hanya memberi kemewahan dunia sahaja. Maka dia akan ditarik ke neraka oleh anaknya.

(p/s; Duhai lelaki yg bergelar ayah, bagaimanakah hal keadaan anak perempuanmu sekarang?. Adakah kau mengajarnya bersolat & saum?..menutup aurat?.. pengetahuan agama?.. Jika tidak cukup salah satunya, maka bersedialah utk menjadi bahan bakar neraka jahannam.)

2. Suaminya

Apabila sang suami tidak mempedulikan tindak tanduk isterinya. Bergaul! bebas di pejabat, memperhiaskan diri bukan utk suami tapi utk pandangan kaum lelaki yg bukan mahram. Apabila suami mendiam diri walaupun seorang yg alim dimana solatnya tidak pernah bertangguh, saumnya tidak tinggal, maka dia akan turut ditarik oleh isterinya bersama-sama ke dlm neraka.

(p/s; Duhai lelaki yg bergelar suami, bagaimanakah hal keadaan isteri tercintamu sekarang?. Dimanakah dia? Bagaimana akhlaknya? Jika tidak kau menjaganya mengikut ketetapan syari'at, maka terimalah hakikat yg kau akan sehidup semati bersamanya di 'taman' neraka sana .)

3. Abang-abangnya

Apabila ayahnya sudah tiada,tanggungjawab menjaga maruah wanita jatuh ke bahu abang-abangnya dan saudara lelakinya. Jikalau mereka hanya mementingkan keluarganya sahaja dan adiknya dibiar melencong dari ajaran Islam,tunggulah tarikan adiknya di akhirat kelak.

(p/s; Duhai lelaki yg mempunyai adik perempuan, jgn hanya menjaga amalmu, dan jgn ingat kau terlepas... kau juga akan dipertanggungjawabkan diakhirat kelak...jika membiarkan adikmu bergelumang dgn maksiat... dan tidak menutup aurat.)

4. Anak2 lelakinya

Apabila seorang anak tidak menasihati seorang ibu perihal kelakuan yg haram disisi Islam. bila ibu membuat kemungkaran mengumpat, memfitnah, mengata dan sebagainya...maka anak itu akan disoal dan dipertanggungjawabkan di akhirat kelak....dan nantikan tarikan ibunya ke neraka.

(p/s; Duhai anak2 lelaki.... sayangilah ibumu.... nasihatilah dia jika tersalah atau terlupa.... krn ibu juga insan biasa... x lepas dr melakukan dosa... selamatkanlah dia dr menjadi 'kayu api' neraka....jika tidak, kau juga akan ditarik menjadi penemannya.)

Lihatlah.....betapa hebatnya tarikan wanita bukan sahaja di dunia malah diakhirat pun tarikannya begitu hebat. Maka kaum lelaki yg bergelar ayah/suami/abang atau anak harus memainkan peranan mereka. Firman Allah S.W.T; "Hai anak Adam, peliharalah diri kamu serta ahlimu dari api neraka dimana bahan bakarnya ialah manusia, jin dan batu-batu...."..!!!!

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Contoh orang yang tidak bersyukur

Parent is derived from a latin word:Parēns, is a caretaker of an offspring. Parents. Kita WAJIB hormat. Wajib sayang. Wajib sanjung. Dan penting sesangat kita taat and mendoakan kesejahteraan mereka. I have heard so many things a person should never say or think about their parents from so many people and it made me realize, yg bergelar ibubapa ni teruk sangat ke? (not naming names here) Layak sangat ke mereka di keji dan di umpat?

Kenapa? Besar sangat ke kesalahan mak bapak tu? If you can forgive and ex-boyfriend/girlfriend, why not your mom & dad? Orang langgar bumper kereta terkemek sikit, boleh je maafkan. Kenapa tak mak bapak?

Ada setengah, marah kat mak bapak sebab mak bapak tak provide enough for them. Ada pulak, suka merendah-rendahkan kebolehan or memperkecilkan mak bapak. Tak boleh blah, blame mak bapak for their own mistake. "Mak bapak aku la ni, kecik-kecik manjakan aku sangat.." Salah plak dimanja kan? "Aku dulu, mak aku suka manjakan adik aku je. Aku ni kire macam terabai, ye la adik aku tu pandai.." tak dimanjakan pon marah.

Kenapa masa kecik dulu, walaupun manja tak nak berdikari dengan sendiri? Kenapa masa kecik dulu, dah tau tak pandai sekolah takde initiative to tackle hati mak bapak dengan pandai benda lain? Contohnya, pandai tolong mak masak, tolong bapak basuh kereta...Ade ke parents yg xsuka anak tolong diorg? Ade?

Ade juga setengah tu, suka sangat compare mak bapak dia dengan mak bapak orang lain. Dude/dudette, memang mak bapak kau tak sama dengan mak bapak org lain. Kalau semua mak bapak sama, semua org jadi adik beradik la. "Bapak kawan aku tu, bila anak dia dapat 1 A, rm100. Kawan aku tu dpt 5A pmr dapat rm500. Aku dapat 8A, mak bapak aku belanja makan je.." nampak tak? dah nampak jelas sangat ketidaksyukuran dia tu. "Kawan tu bapak kerja pemandu lori anak pulak ramai, tapi anak dia mewah jugak. Aku anak sorang pon mak bapak aku tak boleh belikan handphone canggih2. Pakai 3310 je" ni pun crystal clear gak kan?

what is with all the whining? yes sure I too whine about stuff, about how i'm less fortunate than others, but I dont blame it on my parents! Tak cukup ke all this while your parents brought you (and your siblings if any) up. Pagi2 keluar rumah pergi kerja to pay the bills, to put food on the table, put up with your silly antics lagi. Weekend diorg nak rest, korg complain tak bawak jalan2. So diorg pun kesian, bawak la korg berjalan. Sekolah nak pergi trip ke zoo, korg merayu2 nak ikut, bergolek2 nangis ni sebab nak tgk beruk punya pasal. Mak bapak sebab sayang, bagi la pergi + bagi duit. mak bapak tak pergi parents-teacher meetings, cakap mak bapak tak prihatin kebajikan/pendidikan sekolah anak. Kalau mereka tak prihatin, why on earth would they send you to school?

Mak bapak org lain jemput anak diorg dari sekolah. Kamu, kena naik school bus or public transportation. Tak puas hati jugak. "mak bapak aku sibuk kerja. mane ade masa utk aku.." *dialogue mase borak dengan kawan yg parents amik after school* Kenapa parents sibuk kerja? Bukan utk pay for your bills, food and schooling ke? You should be thanking your parents, kalau diorg xkerja, mungkin payah sikit la nak masuk U kan? (maybe, bukan tak boleh lansung la maksud disini) nak masuk U kena pakai duit. Baju nak beli, buku nak beli, supplies nak beli. If you have to stay in (hostel) lagiiii banyak nak beli. Kettle la, iron la, ade tu beli rack siap. padehal hostel ade dah cupboard. Kalau parents tak kerja kuat dulu, sapa nak tanggung? Granted la ada loan, but bukan immediately dapat pon. I know, i've been there!

eh macam lari context sebenar aku pulak dah haha. What I've been trying to highlight here is, bersyukur. Not just bersyukur with what you have etc etc. BUT, (caps siap ni) bersyukur la kamu tu masih ada PARENTS!!!!! Kalau ada parent pun kamu harus sangat2 bersyukur. Try and imagine, you dont have a parent. Imagine pulak, you have no parentS! Berani nak imagine? I for one bersumpah aku tak sanggup imagine my life without my parents. Memang, mak bapak tak sempurna. and yes ada org yg kita nampak mak bapak mereka sempurna berbanding mak bapak kita. Tapi at least kita masih ADA mereka. Nak dapat pahala sangat senang. Nampak je mak/bapak kita, senyum. Tu baru senyum, belum bg salam or ckp baik2 dengan diorg lagi.

My mom and dad pun macam mak bapak korg jugak. Tak perfect. Ada flaws. Ada juga yg xpuas hati. Pernah jugak aku sakiti. Tapi syukur Ya Allah, they are still with me. Kalau daddy takde, who's gonna stay up and wait for me whenever I go out. Who's gonna yell at me telling me I should not be getting home late? Sape yg nak tiba2 buat lawak when I argue with mom pastu buat kami gelak and lupa ape yg ktorg argue? My father taught me a lot of things. Too many of them for me to just pick one.

Momsie. I've fought, argued, scolded and shouted at my mother countless time. Yes. I too am not perfect. Anak derhaka sungguh aku ni. That is why, i can never think of my mom without weeping, thinking about all the bad things i did to her. As i'm typing ni pun, dah basah dah sleeves aku ni. But I love my mother more than anything in this world. Yep, sedikit cliche situ. I can never describe what kind of person my mother is. If my life is hanging on a thread and all i have to do to save my self is describe my mother in 1 word, death awaits. Because there is not a single word in the world that sums up to who my mother is.

Macam mana baik, macam mana jahat mak bapak tu please, PLEASE remember diorg tu mak bapak kita. Jangan just because you're weee bit better than your parents, you trample all over them. All over their feelings. Jangan pijak mak bapak dengan kebongkakkan kita. Jangan keji mak bapak yg dah besarkan kita. Jangan pernah kata kamu boleh berjaya tanpa mereka.

Jangan sampai tak sempat mintak ampun and maaf from our parents. Mintak dijauhkan.

I did it!

Alhamdulillah, yestreday was a success :) Made pasta bake and believe it or not, red velvet cupcakes! Yep. I made them for the first time yesterday. I don't know why I haven't thought of makin them before. Jie actually inspired me to make them :)

I was bored at home yesterday had nothing to do. When I came down to make lunch, kak siti told me we have some leftover pastas from sunday. I was thinkin of just making a sauce or maybe just fry them. Then I got creative, I searched for a pasta bake recipe. Wow senang gila! Then I accidently typed "red velvet" on the search bar pula. And voila, before I know it, I'm already at giant searching for cream cheese and what not :D

Yad, Mom, Dad and Milijo gave thumbs up at my first attempt and made me the happiest person alive!

P/s: should I post the recipe here? Hmm...


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Don't make promises...

...you can't keep! Sumpah rasa annoyed gila when shit like that happens. Yes, i know. Bukan semua org suka mungkir janji. And things happen for a reason. Tapi, masalahnya ini sendiri cari!

Recently a friend of mine texted me asking how my day was, how i was doing and all. The last time we spoken was like a year ago, I was kinda shocked that later after i replied his text he called me. But I guess since its Raya and all, maybe he's calling to wish me raya. So I just continued talking to him asking him how he was and what not. Pelik. He was really being awkward. Macam nak cakap, tp xcakap. Apende ni? Tak faham.

So I pun tanya la kenapa call? Apsal lame gile xdgr cite tibe2 je ade arini. He paused for like 10 secs. Then he said it was nothing. Saje je nak call. Borak mcm biasa la, he asked about Arif, I pun jwb je la. I'm always excited to talk about Arif with everyone pon kan, so bila org tanya mmg dengan gembira ria la aku cite. As i was telling him about how Arif is now working close with me, always dropping by to discuss about the house, he suddenly hung up on me. I thought maybe the line was bad or battery ke that's why he got cut off. Being me, kedekut punya org, I waited for him to call back. But he did not. I tried calling him back, tapi tak dapat. So today I was browsing and teringat pulak nak wall him. Nak tau ape jadi? I can't find him in my friends list :)

Ape kes? Dulu konon kawan sampai mati la. Kalau ada apa2 meh cari die la. Nak kawen jemput la. Nak jemput camne? Nak cari camne? Tried to check kawan2 lain pun dia delete ke, xpulak. Pende tah. If you have a problem with me, just come and tell me. Tak payah susah2. Just text me. Or simply send me a mail on fb. Its not like I would die if tak kawan dengan dia pon, tapi tu la. Konon kawan kena sentiasa ingat kawan. Konon "aku xdenye lupe ko, kalau pape ko org 1st aku jemput". Kenapa janji kawan mcm tu kalau nak delete and ignore kawan2? Kalau nak jadi macam tu, awal2 jangan janji apa2. I have no problem with that.

Haihh orang kan? So unpredictable. Predictable sangat pun susah. Tak masuk akal tu selalu. Granted that I might be losing a friend here, but if the friend doesn't need me anymore, what can I say? I'll leave it up to him.

Tanak kawan xpe la kan? InsyaAllah kite ade byk kawan lain ;)

Geotech - Quiz 1

The unimaginable happened. I kantoied my 1st quiz :( I only managed to score 11 out of 20 marks! How on earth am I going to major in geotech when I kantoi at the very beginning? Aduiiii. I really, REALLY need to buck up! Today everything went haywire. Passed up tutorial #3, but forgot to take pictures for future ref. Was suppose to go to Mak Ngah's place, but terlupa. Pastuuuu I've lost my voice! Sakit gila øk nak bercakap :( and I can't keep quiet pulak tu. Camne ni???
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Kelaparan pulak..

Haihh woke up this morning feeling sooo hungry and the first thing that pops in my mind is...Seoul Garden! Why? Simply because its all you can eat! Haha. Ohh I can imagine frying chicken bulgogi, coffee chicken, kim chi, ice cream....haduiiii laa..
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Nubhan kuasa tak terkata!

Ya Rabbi, memalukan sungguh! Apsalnye yang aku bleh terlambat sgt tau pasal ni? Adoii tu la die, nak jadi tech savvy kunun. Padehal noob! Haha.

I was browsing some blog tadi, then I saw a post by someone. She posted via blackberry. I've been searching high and low for an app for blogger but couldn't find one. Only wordpress. Been using wordpress for some even private blogging quite some time now. (And yes, private meaning no, I'm never revealing that blog. Nothing weird or anything, just my silly thoughts that I'm not comfortable sharing with anyone just yet.)

So now that I've found a way, yeayyyy..ughh kadang mcm letih pulak nak menghadap monitor, plus skrg kena jimat electricity!

Weeee bestnya rasaaaaa (over) jom tengok Drive Me Crazy! Adrian Grenier super hot pleaseeee! (Oh tp aku tgk kat laptop la hahahah)

P/s: Milijo skrg is workin on our house's renovation! Super ♡!
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Men.

Saw someone posted this of facebook. made me think.

Gadis : Kenapa awak ikut saya ni ?

Lelaki : Saya tak tahu.. Awak cantik sangat.. Saya rasa , saya dah cintakan awak,

Gadis : Hmm , awak tak jumpa lagi kawan saya , dia lagi cantik dari saya..

Lelaki : Hmm ?

Gadis : Dia ada di belakang awak...

Lelaki : *pusing* Tak ada siapa pon..

Gadis : Kalau awak betul2 cintakan saya , tak mungkin awak akan pusing !

*cintailah seseorang itu seadanya *

Sebenarnyekan, bukan lelaki je macam tu. perempuan pun. Tapi saya rasa lah. Sebab kadangkala saya pon suke tgk paras rupa orang, xkira lelaki/perempuan. Kalau perempuan cantik, i can't help but to tgk byk kali. kalau yg biasa je rasenye xperasan sgt kot? mcm saya la bila org lain tgk saya. kan?

Jyeahhh sudah mariiiiii~

So okay, parcel sudah sampai! right before lunch tadi pin pin kata van poslaju~~ berkejaran aku turun ke bawah nk amik hihi padehal boleh je suruh kak siti amikkan, tapi gedik punya pasal sendiri berlarian. paling xboleh blah, smpai kat pintu chewahh punye cool je jalan konon nak hide ke-excited-an haha. dah bagitau ke ek shawl ape yg byn beli? beli shawl kat sini, seller tu comel sangat siap ada tutorial lagi.

sebenarnya byn pernah jumpa seller tu, if im not mistaken around march kot aku ada pergi this seminar, kak anizon and team Dara.com ada buat mcm workshop for muslimah. ada ajar cara buat facial, ajar daily, night and natural make-up by m.a.c and tips pakai shawl. i saw this girl sangat comel, tudung dia lain dari org yg ada datang masa tu. consequently, she came with a supplier of mine jugak (iejan), tah mcm mana terjumpa blogshop ni.

been wanting to buy shawls from her, but then byn la katekan. busy la sgt konon tu. this time baru la ade opportunity nak beli. sangat efficient, lepas hantar order form and dapat acc number, bank-in and tup tap dah sampai abg poslaju yg xberapa nak laju tu. (tp laju la jugak, smpai berhenti depan rumah tu tayar screeeccchhhiiingggg sakit telinga hahaha). definitely a recommended seller.

sila lah lawati blogshop berkenaan ye ;) (oh and saya promote bukan sebab dibayar or disuruh, tapi sebab sangat puas hati with the quality and the promt reply from seller)


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Meroyan tiada kawalan...

Last sunday aku meroyan gila sebab beli shawl smpai 10 pcs just for me. haha padan muka, aku geram sgt sebab shawl tu kalau beli 1pc, its like almost 30rm. Hello, aku ni student la :( manede duit bebyk nak beli shawl harga mcm tu! so aku nekad (chewah nekad) beli wholesale to get cheaper price. so meroyan la aku memilih colours pulak. padehal 24jam pon mmg aku pkai black kan? gedik2 plak nak pilih2 colour. but whatever la, alang2 dah nak beli tu pilih je la hihi. seller tu cakap, by today the shawls will arrive! terus rasa tanak keluar rumah. i've checked with poslaju punya track n trace pon die tulis situ attempting delivery (camtu ke tulis?). weeee by tomorrow boleh pkai shawl gedik! yeayyy. *excited terlebih terhadap bende xpatot*


p/s: shawl gedik disini adalah sateen shawl. cantik pulak tgk org pakai. tapi takot pulak sendiri pakai terus jadi yuck pulak T.T dah beli dah pon xleh nk ckp ape la byn oiiii~~~~

tutorial? how-to? recipe?hmmm...

thinking of posting an entry on how to make my version of Curry Mee. Tapi not like proper recipe, sebab ingredients xde measurements yg tepat. sebab aku masak ikut hati. (konon passionate sgt la aku ni? haha) boleh ke gitu? bantai je la x? hihi

Raya kami :)

Raya datang lagi! hehe 2 weeks into raya baru la aku nak update ye x? wadeselow byn!

macam biasa, pagi raya daddy n dol pegi solat raya, momsie masak, dinah err buat rambut? and aku? tidoq menggantikkan tidoq yg teramat limited bila tiba hari raya. eh tp xla lambat mane pon bangun, tahun ni bangun pukul 8.30 hehe just before daddy pegi solat raya :)

pastu bila daddy balik, kitorg akan makan! lauk ape? semestinya Lontong Sedap Mummy + sambal kelapa, Rendang Minang ala Mak Teh, Sambal Sotong, Kuah Kacang, Ketupat Pulut Yadik and last but not least, FAR from LEAST, Ayam Bulat Femes Puan Mofeda :D (nama rekaan je pon hihi)

dah makan, beratur la kami semua utk salam2 raya. mase ni mmg sangat best la sebab mommy mesti bagi duit raye hehe (eleh tu je suke) tapi bab yg xbest tuuuuuuuuuuuuu time mintak ampun :'( Almaklum la, aku ni anak byk dosa. memang banjir la kan.......ok sambung balik.....tahun ni aku n dinzly dpt duit raya dari dol! ade ke bengong die tu, memule dah salam die kasi la packet duit raya tu, tp sedikit musykil, apsal plak cam ringan je packet ni? rupenye samdol tu bagi packet KOSONG!!! wade samdol sungguh!! aku yg airmate xabih2 lagi tu leh bantai gelak plak haha..

oh lupe! kasut raya tahun ni kami ber3 (mom,me and yad) telah ditaja sepenuhnye oleh dol. daddy pon dapat baju raya :) Alhamdulillah dpt la sorg sikit ye x? Thanx dol!

dah habis beraya, kitorg pon headed towards kajang untuk ziarah opah and atuk. tapi sedih, aku tahun ni xdapat nk ziarah sama2 :'( tp xpe, ustaz yg ajar aku titas dlu pernah ckp, xwajib pun ziarah kubur, ckup sekadar kite sentiasa ingat, doa dan sedekah ayat2 suci Al-quran kpd yg telah pergi. InsyaAllah kalau niat kite utk bersedekah tu, sampailah sedekah kite. pastu kami pon ke rumah mak ngah. sampai rumah mak ngah, ape lagi, sambung mkn+amik pics la ape lagi! hehe syok je ktorg mase tu gelak2, tambah2 badik pon ade, kire tahun ni cukup la semua cucu2 opah atok. xtermasuk cucu2 mak ngah plak. mmg kecoh!

dah makan, dah bergambar, ktorg masing2 beransur plak ke rumah Tok Ngah, Tok Lang n Tok Chik kt Segambut and Selayang. Alhamdulillah sihat2 diorg. Tok Lang je la yg xberapa sihat sgt, tp itu pun tok lang dah boleh bangun n jalan sikit2 :) lepas tu singgah rumah Mak Teh. Ya Rabbi mase ni mmg gile2 xlarat sgt dah! nasib baik la duduk kejap ke lepas tu ktorg balik.

sampai rumah terus upload pics smbil tertido2 hihi..

letak skit la pics kt sini. nak tgk lagi? aikk lebih2 plak hahaha tgk fb sane :P